Dogs & Children

Living Safely with Large Dogs & Children

A Guide for Families Bringing Home a Large-Breed Puppy

1. Supervision is Non-Negotiable

• Never leave children alone with the dog until the dog is at least 5 years old.

• If you leave the room, take the dog with you or place it in a crate.

• Even the most even-tempered dog can be startled, hurt, or scared, and because children’s faces are close to a dog’s mouth, any defensive snap can cause a serious injury.

2. Understanding Male vs. Female Temperament

• Males tend to be goofier, more carefree, and more physically clumsy, which can be a problem when they weigh close to 100 lbs. They usually have higher energy levels until about age 4.

• Females mature faster, tend to be more cautious, and are often more careful around very young children, reducing the risk of accidental bumps or injuries.

• My Recommendation: Families with young children often do best with a female.

3. Safety Rules for Children

• Sit on the floor when holding or playing with the puppy.

• No poking eyes, pulling ears/tails, or squeezing paws.

• Absolutely no wrestling or rough play with the dog.

• The dog only eats in its crate, alone.

• Children are never allowed inside the dog’s crate.

• Once children are walking, they may help feed the dog — but never touch or remove food from the bowl.

4. Training & Socialization

• Teach basic commands (sit, stay, leave it, down, place) early and practice with children present.

• Reward calm, polite behavior around kids.

• Expose your puppy to children in a positive, controlled way.

• Provide a safe, quiet area (crate, gated room) where the dog can relax away from children.

5. Recognizing Stress in Dogs

Learn the signals that your dog needs space:

• Lip licking

• Yawning when not tired

• Turning head or body away

• Stiff posture

• Growling
  These are warnings — step in and redirect before escalation.

6. Managing Playtime

• Play should always involve toys, not hands or clothing.

• Avoid chase games or high-excitement roughhousing.

• Large dogs can knock children over without meaning to.

Remember: Safe dog–child relationships are built on mutual respect and clear rules. Teach your children to respect the dog’s space and needs, and train your dog to respond calmly around children.
For more guidance, I highly recommend: Doggie Language: A Dog Lover's Guide to Understanding Your Best Friend